hullo.


due to great demands.


the 5 ways to avoid missing faraway loved ones.

ok, assuming the loved one in particular is ur bf.
haha.ok..this is just an example.


1) do not. do not. in fact, never, spend time thinking bt him. haha. i dun mean forgetting him altogether but dont bother staring out the window and saying 'haii..somewhere beneath this same sky, i know my darling is coming home soon.' drop that ok. just spend ur temporary, for-the-time-being singlehoodness. yeah, this is just the right time to do things that u couldnt do while he was ard. hehehe. no no. im not suggesting u date other guys, haha, but gather all ur gfs and haf fun. now tell me, how many of u are (kinda, sorta) guilty of ditching ur gfs for ur bfs? so, this is the splendid time to call ur gfs down, dressed up to the nines, go for therapeutic shopping aaaand, coffee(or piggin' out for some). if u haven noticed it, all the activities i suggested above involve too much fun/attention. hence, the idea of sitting n dreaming bt bf is so faraway.
for instance, 'calling all ur gfs down' is one helluva task. haha, easy as it may sound, u pull a little of ur hair, smash a few things, splurt some vulgarities, cut some wrist in the process of getting them all down. haha..ok, a little exaggerated, but i guess u know wat i mean.
ps: this step only works if u (1) have gfs who still bother & care (2) have single gfs, or (3) have gfs.
haha. if not, mothers also can la. or ur desperate housewives aunts.



2) write him a letter but don send it. u can write an essay for all u want, write bout all the little things u did or felt that day and avoid being too mushy. its supposed to be a self-centred kinda letter, where u go..'i did this today. i said this to that auntie. i drank chocolate milk. i i i' ok, u may add a little of 'you's. hah. believe it or not, it really worked. there was once i went for a short hols, and i kinda missed this fren of mine. so i wrote postcards to him. when i came back to singapore, i told him bt that and asked if he wanted tt card. then he told me to keep it and give him once i've written more, and made into a bk. haha. so, this method shd be tried.
BUT im not suggesting u spend hours everyday writing letters to him. haha, then, it defeats all purpose of doing it in the first place.



3) look thru events/pictures/letters/anything that include none of him. (provided thers any. if there isnt, u can alw visit www.interesting-events-in-zimbabwe.com. haha. u cfm cant find ur bf on tt webbie.) and this step is also for those girls who haf no other ppl except their bf. yikes, pathetic as it is, these girls do exist. anw, if i were to go thru events, for instance, i'd reminisce bout those time i'd spent with lynn and fizah. the videos, the lame jokes.and i'd reminisce bout the girls day-out i had with my sec sch/aj frens. i'd read the letters lynnette and fizah and chiang ee wrote to me back in sec sch. i'd look thru the pics i have. weeeeeeeeee. i can spend days completing the tasks above lah sey.



4) cook! yes. cook! pls note that the definition of cook here does not include cooking maggi mee or rice. cook here means, cook nasi briyani ke..(dgn lauk pauknye sekali), nasi ayam ke..(dgn hidangan sampingan nye sekali). from my experience, cooking requires concetration. the other time, i was preparing sweet&sour fish, then lynn called. gosh. i lost concentration and put the corn flour into the wrong mixture. wahah. so, cooking is one good activity to keep ur mind off ur bf. hehe. but if u're a professional cook (like fanah..hehe) and u can cook without having to concentrate so much, u can try baking. yes.maybe baking pizza with different toppings? its such an escapade. having completed this step, the next mandatory step, is to call and jemput me. hehe.



5) get urselves addicted to some computer games! haha. be it championship manager, grand prix legend, civilisation 2, the sims, pinball, mario bros or minesweeper. anything la. just play! haha. computer games are very addictive. BUT, this step is kinda risky, coz, u may continue getting addicted even after ur loved ones some hm. heh. so, carry this step with much discretion.
or! u can go to any cd shop and get addicted to some new music genre or just some new bands. if all these while u've been listening to emo songs,try somthing new. try listening to an underground hiphop or rock bands tt u rarely hear of. or anything la. something different.
but if listening to lyrics of songs make u think of ur bfs, try listening to those hardcore metal (or watever tauhid likes) coz, i bet, cfm, plus chop that u cant figure out wat the vocalist screams. huahua. dsktakdsktakdsktak..tubtubtubtubtub.chiaaang! wooaaaarkkk!! rrrroooaaar..ooouurrhh..wooaaaarrrkkk!! haha. now tel me if u'll get emo listening to tt.
ps: this step only works if u enjoy music and are flexible and open wen it comes to various music types.



aight. tts all for the 5 ways bla bla bla. hahah.




anw, yesterday, i left hm as early as 8 am.
reached orchard at ard 8.30 am.
we promoted ydc. youth donor club.
the beginning of the whole event was close to 'shit'.
but later on, it became so much very fun.
i went ard far east recruiting new members.
saw some aj hockey guys, hopeless guys i mus say.
saw yani. saw some scc hockey players.
good day afterall.
the mini concert outside heeren was great!
and the emcee, who's also a member of ydc was cute.
haha. and pei lee just had to tel him that i said he's cute.
paisey makan tosey sehhhh.
haha. but really la, he's this indian guy
whose name has been repeated to me like 3 times,
but i kinda forgot wat it is.
nvm 'cute emcee' will do just fine.


oh anw, on my way out frm al falah,
i saw this familiar face getting off his bike.
then as i approached him, i knew he was one of the aj seniors. couldnt rmb his name, but good enuff i rmb him n he rmb me. wahh..got bike already.semangat!
me: wahh..dah de bike seh!
ramli: haha. yalaah.
ramli: last time, rmb, i always tak dtg skolah?
me: skipped sch untuk pegi bike lessons?
me: haha! serious?
ramli: yah..that, and other reasons ah.


haha. senior senior.



alrite. now, i wanna go for retail therapy on my own.
last evening, i went shopping alone at orchard fter the ydc event. weeeeeee.fun yannow. it has never been that therapeutic before in my life. haha. ok ah. ciao!